Today I have found renewed inspiration to start writing again. It has been since last summer that I posted an entry here on my blog, but I feel so good after going out with friends yesterday and really enjoying myself that I wanted to plunge back into writing my book.
Nothing much has changed for me this last year except I’m still keenly looking for the secret to finding and maintaining a relationship in the "good chase" stage. To me life feels much more alive when you go about everyday having that look of happiness on your face. You know, it's the look that when anyone sees you and says you have that glow about you. It’s a blissful feeling that’s hard to describe in simple words, all I know is I love that feeling and miss it when it’s no longer there.
While everyone knows the basics of a loving and healthy relationship are good chemistry, commitment, and respect and that each of those are all so important isn't there something more that's needed.
Well, I am looking for the more, so how do you describe that feeling of blissful excitement? A good friend gave me an example of how he sees it, he calls it “finding lightening in a bottle”. And that to me so far is the best way to describe that ever elusive exciting feeling that stays and stays and outlasts time.
Nothing much has changed for me this last year except I’m still keenly looking for the secret to finding and maintaining a relationship in the "good chase" stage. To me life feels much more alive when you go about everyday having that look of happiness on your face. You know, it's the look that when anyone sees you and says you have that glow about you. It’s a blissful feeling that’s hard to describe in simple words, all I know is I love that feeling and miss it when it’s no longer there.
While everyone knows the basics of a loving and healthy relationship are good chemistry, commitment, and respect and that each of those are all so important isn't there something more that's needed.
Well, I am looking for the more, so how do you describe that feeling of blissful excitement? A good friend gave me an example of how he sees it, he calls it “finding lightening in a bottle”. And that to me so far is the best way to describe that ever elusive exciting feeling that stays and stays and outlasts time.
2 comments:
This is so important. The instinct to chase in instinctive for men. As my mother used to say, "Man chases woman 'til she catches him!". We need to stop calling, stop offering to pay on the first date, stop giving it up to people we don't really know!
Tricenet
I challange the "chase". Not the idea of having passion for one another that can be dubbed a "chase" but the word (they can be powerful) lacks a definition of balace that honest good relationships desires.
Ok, so I get it. We all get it. Everyone wants to be wanted, loved, cherished, be in a space of "this is a great special relationship" beyond my boys, family etc.
But chase? Like the example you gave, boys chase girls. Why-because they like them. Once we pass the age of 21, the interest of the chase should be two fold. Gentleman aka the few good men that walk this earth get lost in theories such as the chase. Due to the fact that 98.6 percent of men are about nonsense (I'm not a number cruncher but I think that is fairly accurate) the rest get lost in the sauce.
I suggest forget the chase, stop reading books by comedians who don't pay thier alimony. Just be yourself and show the same level of interest in him that he shows in you.
Just my thoughts...
Mickey-Leader and spokesman for AGM ALL GOOD MEN LOL
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